Four Steps to Approaching Women


What women like to hear from men

It’s not easy to approach beautiful women. First of all you have to conquer that little voice inside your head that says “women aren’t interested in me.” Secondly, you have to figure out how to even start a conversation. Then you have to figure out how to move past small talk to ask if they might be interested in a coffee or dinner. After all of that, it still might not even work out.

Taking a defeatist attitude will get you nowhere though. So, to help you approach beautiful women, here’s some tips to help the modern man find love!

1. Bravery in Bravado.

The bad news is that you can’t simply learn how to be confident with women. The good news is that it’s easy to find bravery in bravado if you want to approach beautiful women. Even if you lack faith in yourself, if you pretend otherwise, no one will know. Faking confidence can be equally as effective as actually having confidence when you approach beautiful women. This is different from being cocky and arrogant–nobody likes a blowhard–but if you simply pretend to be a confident version of yourself, you’ll eventually no longer need to fake it.

2. The Approach.

Once you’ve got the right mindset, make eye contact and smile. Don’t make it a weird, fake, toothy grin. Smile genuinely, even if it’s a small one. Catching this stranger’s eye is a sign that she’s interested. It’s also important to check body language before you approach beautiful women to see if she’s uninterested in conversation. If she’s frowning, or her arms are crossed, or she looks closed off in general, it may best not to talk to her.

3. The Hard Part.

The hardest part of approaching women is to actually approach them
. Some situations it’s easier to start chatting than others. For example, if you’re in line, you can approach beautiful women much easier. Just start talking with a number of little ice breakers. Talk about the store. Talk about the day. Talk about the weather. Talk about what she’s buying. Really, you can talk to them about anything. Now, say you were in a cafe and noticed an attractive girl across the shop. This is a bit trickier. However, if she’s reading a book, or listening to music, or doing something in general, you can use that to you advantage and ask them about it. Essentially, the key to breaking the ice when you approach beautiful women is to find some kind of common ground on which you can build a conversation.

4. How to Make Friends.

She’ll be more likely to continue your conversation or say yes to an offer of drinks if you’re able to quickly make friends with her. There are several things you can do to facilitate this. Firstly, ask her questions about herself. By taking an interest in them, you’re paying them a great compliment implicitly, and they’ll notice. Secondly, make eye contact, nod, and shows signs that you’re generally listening. Thirdly, smile. People want to be around others who are happy, others who will enrich their lives. Smiling shows them that you’re exactly that kind of person.

It’s not the easiest thing in the world, but with a bit of pluck and foresight, anyone can approach beautiful women. If you have any questions about how to approach beautiful women, feel free to ask in the comments.

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